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Positive affirmations are short sentences you say or write to yourself, in the first person and the present tense, like “I can do hard things one step at a time.” Start with the ones you can believe today. Below are 100 positive affirmations grouped by part of life, plus what research says and how to make them stick.
What are positive affirmations?
A positive affirmation is a kind, true sentence about yourself that you repeat on purpose. “I am allowed to rest” is an affirmation. “I should stop being so lazy” is the voice it tries to answer.
Good affirmations have three things in common. They start with “I” or “my”, they talk about now and they sound like something you could say without rolling your eyes.
Do positive affirmations work?
They can, but not every sentence works for every person. In a 2009 study by Joanne Wood and colleagues, people with low self-esteem who repeated “I’m a lovable person” felt worse afterwards than people who didn’t. People with high self-esteem felt a little better.
When psychologists study self-affirmation, they usually ask people to write about the values that matter most to them. A review by Geoffrey Cohen and David Sherman describes how these short writing exercises have helped people in school, health and relationships. That’s closer to “I care about my family and I show it” than to “I am perfect”.
So pick affirmations that feel true or almost true. If a sentence makes you argue back, soften it. “I am confident” can become “I am getting more comfortable speaking up.” If you’d rather write your own, our guide on how to write affirmations walks you through it step by step.
We cover more studies, on stress and on what happens in the brain, in our article on whether affirmations work.
How to use positive affirmations
- Choose one or two affirmations that fit what you need right now.
- Tie them to something you already do every day, like making coffee or locking the door.
- Say them slowly, out loud or in your head, or write one down.
- When a sentence stops meaning anything to you, swap it for a new one.
Positive affirmations for the morning
- Today can be a good day even if it starts slowly.
- I have enough time for what matters today.
- I don’t need to finish everything to have a good day.
- I start this day with what I have, and that’s enough.
- I can handle whatever comes up today.
- I’ll notice at least one good thing today.
- I’m allowed to go at my own pace.
- Today I choose to be patient with myself.
- My mood this morning doesn’t decide my whole day.
- I’m glad I get another try today.
For more ideas and a simple routine, read our 50 morning affirmations.
Positive affirmations for self-love
- I’m allowed to like myself.
- I treat myself like someone I care about.
- My worth doesn’t depend on how productive I am.
- I can be a work in progress and still be enough.
- I forgive myself for what I didn’t know back then.
- I don’t have to earn rest.
- I’m learning to be on my own side.
- My needs matter as much as anyone else’s.
- I’m allowed to take up space.
- I speak to myself the way I’d speak to a friend.
For 50 more, sorted by hard days, mistakes, your body and saying no, see our self-love affirmations.
Positive affirmations for confidence
- I can do hard things one step at a time.
- My voice deserves to be heard.
- I’ve handled new things before and I can do it again.
- I don’t need to be perfect to be good at this.
- I’m allowed to ask questions.
- Feeling nervous means I care. I can still go ahead.
- I’m proud of how far I’ve come.
- My ideas are worth sharing, even unfinished ones.
- I trust myself to figure it out.
- Mistakes help me learn. They don’t define me.
For 50 sentences about speaking up at work, saying no, a changing body and starting over, see our positive affirmations for women.
Positive affirmations for hard days
- This day is hard, and it will end.
- I’ve made it through hard days before.
- I’m allowed to do the bare minimum today.
- It’s okay to not be okay right now.
- I can take this one hour at a time.
- Tired doesn’t mean I’m failing.
- I’m allowed to ask for help.
- I don’t have to have it all figured out tonight.
- Small steps still count.
- Tomorrow is a new start, even if today wasn’t great.
Positive affirmations for calm and stress relief
- I can slow down my breathing.
- Right now, in this moment, I’m safe.
- I don’t have to solve everything at once.
- My thoughts are not facts.
- I can feel anxious and still take the next step.
- I let my shoulders drop.
- I can put this worry down for a while.
- Some things are out of my control, and that’s okay.
- One thing at a time is enough.
- This feeling will pass.
Affirmations don’t replace therapy. If stress or anxiety keeps getting in the way of your sleep, work or relationships, talk to your doctor or a mental health professional.
For sentences to use during panic, overthinking or anxious nights, see our 50 affirmations for anxiety.
Positive affirmations for work and study
- I can focus on one task at a time.
- I’m good at learning new things.
- My work has value, even when nobody comments on it.
- I’m allowed to set boundaries at work.
- I prepare well and I trust what I know.
- A bad grade or review is information. It doesn’t measure my worth.
- I can ask for what I need to do my job well.
- I’m building skills that will stay with me.
- I’m allowed to log off when the day is done.
- Progress matters more than speed.
Positive affirmations for relationships and friendship
- I’m worth spending time with.
- I let the people who love me see the real me.
- I can say no and still be kind.
- I choose people who make me feel safe.
- I give love freely and I’m open to receiving it.
- I can disagree with someone and still care about them.
- The right people will stay.
- I’m grateful for the friends who check in on me.
- I don’t need to earn love by pleasing everyone.
- I can be honest about how I feel.
Positive affirmations for body and health
- I thank my body for carrying me through today.
- I listen when my body asks for rest.
- I speak about my body with respect.
- I move in ways that feel good.
- I take breaks before I’m exhausted.
- I give my body food, water and sleep.
- My body is my home, and I treat it kindly.
- I’m patient with my body when it’s healing.
- I notice my breath and let it slow down.
- I’m more than the way I look.
Gratitude affirmations
- I notice the good things in ordinary days.
- I’m grateful for the people who make my life easier.
- I can look for one small thing to be thankful for.
- I’m thankful for what my life looks like right now.
- I can be grateful and still want more for myself.
- Good things happen to me, even on quiet days.
- Some hard times taught me something I can use.
- I take a moment each day to notice what went well.
- I’m grateful for this body, this breath and this day.
- Even a hard day had something good in it.
If you’d like to write down what you’re grateful for instead of saying it, start with how to start a gratitude journal or pick a question from our gratitude journal prompts.
Positive affirmations for sleep
- I did enough today.
- I let go of what I couldn’t finish.
- My bed is a safe place to rest.
- I can stop thinking about today.
- Tomorrow’s problems can wait until tomorrow.
- I relax my jaw, my hands and my shoulders.
- I let my body get heavy and slow.
- Nothing else is expected of me tonight.
- I’m thankful for one good moment from today.
- I let myself fall asleep.
How to write your own positive affirmations
Your own words can feel more true than anyone else’s. Use these four checks:
- Write in the first person: “I”, “my”, “me”.
- Use the present tense: “I am learning”, not “I will be”.
- Keep it short enough to remember.
- Make it believable today. “I am learning to trust myself” works on days when “I trust myself completely” doesn’t.
We built Graceup as a gratitude journal, and it also has more than 2,500 affirmations in 19 categories, from calm and confidence to sleep and hard days. You can save the ones that feel true, write your own and get an affirmation reminder at the time you choose.
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Frequently asked questions
How many times a day should I say an affirmation?
There's no research-backed number. Once or twice a day at a fixed moment, like after brushing your teeth, is easy to remember. Saying one sentence slowly and paying attention to it is easier to keep up than repeating it twenty times on autopilot.
Do positive affirmations actually work?
It depends on the affirmation and the person. In a 2009 study, people with low self-esteem felt worse after repeating "I'm a lovable person", while people with high self-esteem felt slightly better. So if a sentence feels false to you, start with one you can believe today.
Should I say affirmations out loud or write them down?
Either works, so pick the one you'll actually do. Saying them out loud is quick. Writing one down takes a little longer and gives you a record you can reread later.
What is the best time of day for affirmations?
Morning affirmations fit before the day gets busy, and evening ones fit when it's winding down. The best time is the one you can tie to something you already do every day.
What's a good example of a positive affirmation?
"I can do hard things one step at a time" is a good example. It's in the first person, it's in the present tense and it's believable even on a bad day.
Can affirmations replace therapy?
No. Affirmations can help you talk to yourself more kindly, but they don't treat anxiety, depression or any other condition. If you're struggling, talk to your doctor or a mental health professional.
I'm Eric, and I want to help make the world a better place. Studies show that people who make gratitude a habit are happier, sleep better and are kinder to the people around them. I built Graceup so this habit is within anyone's reach.
